So... the likelihood of me paying a woman's bills is next to nothing if I too have financial responsibilities myself to take care of in this economy. I'm a single man and I do have bills too. Ya know? The only time I really didn't have any bills to pay was when I was living with my parents in their home. Shit, you know a man like that can't pay anyone's bills anyways.
Okay, so let's be real here, if a woman was already dating a man of the wealthiest stature, she wouldn't be asking this man to pay her bills in the first place.
I usually look at women who expects a man to pay her bills or spend money on her as straight gold diggers. I don't view something that you can’t afford as my responsibility and make sure you are able to keep it when I can't afford something myself. Living above your means isn't my problem. It's yours. If you can’t afford going out to eat, that house, car, fancy jewelry, those purses or shoes you lust after, don't try and get a man to pay for those things. Just stop buying and doing things you can't afford!
"In this society these types of women become over saturated. The over saturation of anything depletes its value."
With that being said, I typically just want to stay single for as long as I can so I'm able to get married and remain as faithful as possible. I know that having a woman like this is not worth losing everything that I stand for. No matter how beautiful the woman is or how good the sex is. Women like this rarely ever want to become my wife nor do they stay in a long-term relationship with me. Besides, in this economy, unless you're super rich (like Donald Trump rich), a woman like this isn’t necessarily going to stick around. She may hang on to you and make your life completely miserable for as long as she feels like it and she's never going to truly love you.
Now, I believe the wife gets everything. I would pay a woman’s bills who has proven herself to be loyal outside of my wallet and bank account. This woman would of had my back and held me down when I needed it, yet always held me up. She will be my muse and my best friend. She may not be that mother of my children.. she may not be the most beautiful.. she may not even be the smartest.. But, she will, however, be my ego boost when I need it, and bring me back down to reality when my ego gets way too out of control (c'mon, I'm an Aries). She will encouraged me rather than belittled me. A woman that will make me feel better, stronger and taller than I ever felt before. That's the woman I will marry. And for THAT woman I will pay her bills and spend money on.
I want a woman who has joy and purpose in her life.
If something bad were to ever happen, I would want her to be able to hold her own and be okay without having to move on to the next man. And a woman who doesn't constantly need a man’s attention to feel good about herself.
Now, you might be REAL pleasing to the eyes, amazing to have sex with, and fun to go out with, but you aren’t going to get me to pay your bills and spend money on you if I don't feel like a man while doing it. I just feel like the next customer.
If your only standard is a man who will pay your bills and that's your main focus and goal for a relationship, well then that's just whack.
I didn’t grow up with money. I have to work extremely hard for my money. I didn't win the lottery or do something illegal to attain it. Therefore, giving up my hard earned money really isn't that easy for me to do.
I believe that my role in my WIFE’S life is to be a provider and I will spend money on her to make her happy, because I work hard, and will work hard in every way, for HER. I will put all my time and energy into her, and invested my emotions into her. I will care for her and want the two of us to have the best relationship I have to offer. Buying gifts, paying bills, and whatnot, is something I consider to be a part of who I am as a MAN in that woman’s life. I will do so willingly, not by manipulation.